How to grow a man : Turning Chumps to Hunks

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Raise Him. Shape His Future. Find His Love.

In How to Grow a Man, you will guide Chris through four formative years of his life. Decide how he spends each month, develop his abilities, choose his career, and pursue romance with one of seven unique men.

Every decision shapes the man Chris will become—and determines who will stand beside him at the end of his journey.

Four Years to Shape a Life

Each playthrough unfolds across 48 monthly turns. Carefully plan Chris’s schedule and decide how he should spend his limited time.

Will he study and develop his talents? Work to earn money? Explore the city? Build relationships? Or take a well-deserved vacation?

The abilities Chris develops and the choices he makes will influence his future career, romantic relationships, and final ending.

Seven Men, Seven Unique Romances

Meet seven distinctive men, each with his own personality, history, secrets, and romantic storyline.

A loyal dragon knight, a mysterious clergyman, a childhood friend of royal blood, a cheerful foreign adventurer, a dignified older count, the dangerous ruler of the backstreets, and even an unexpectedly innocent Demon King await you.

Spend time together, unlock special events, deepen your relationships, and discover the hidden sides of each character.

Choose the Dynamic of Your Relationship

Every romance offers more than one way to love.

With all seven characters, you can choose whether Chris takes the lead or gives up control. Your preferred relationship dynamic will shape the romantic scenes and allow you to experience each relationship from a different perspective.

Who captures whose heart—and who takes the lead—is entirely up to you.

Your Choices Create His Future

Chris’s life does not follow a single predetermined path. His abilities, profession, romantic partner, relationship dynamic, and major decisions combine to produce more than 30 different endings.

He may find love, build a successful career, marry the man of his dreams, or walk toward an entirely different future.

Complete one life, then begin again to discover new professions, relationships, and possibilities.

Explore, Shop, Dress Up, and Make Memories

Life is about more than work and romance.

Explore the city, visit different locations, purchase useful items, and collect a variety of outfits for Chris. Take him on vacation, create special memories, and discover events that may not appear during his ordinary routine.

As Chris grows, his appearance will change across three stages, allowing you to watch him mature throughout the four-year journey.

Key Features

• A BL life and dating simulation spanning four years and 48 monthly turns
• Seven romanceable men with their own stories and relationship events
• The freedom to choose a TOP or BOTTOM relationship dynamic with every character
• Schedule planning, ability development, career choices, and resource management
• More than 30 endings shaped by career, romance, marriage, and player decisions
• Three stages of growth for the protagonist
• A wide variety of outfits, items, locations, and vacation events
• A colorful fantasy world filled with romance, comedy, and emotional stories
• Multiple routes and outcomes designed for repeated playthroughs

How will you raise Chris? What kind of man will he become—and who will he choose to love?

His future is in your hands.